In our search we found some writers using the term Quick-Fix Parenting. We had not heard this expression previously so we decided to grow our own parenting skills. We were glad we did because some of us who were older had experienced this. Plus, we had many friends who had similar experiences.

Yes, almost all parents have used the Quick-Fix model when tired and totally frustrated over a specific behavior that has occurred. But we have learned this is a no-no model to use if a parent uses it over a long period of time.

Intentional Parenting is a term you may have heard but have only given limited attention to the term. If so, you are like most parents. We did the same thing because some of us who developed this guide had not taken the time to learn much about many parenting terms. But we found after we started our search that we were really practicing some of the intentional parenting behaviors and did not know it.

An effective parent’s goal is to raise children who are responsible, confident, and empathetic individuals who can contribute positively to society because you will not just provide basic needs for your children, but you will be nurturing their emotional, social and intellectual development. Good parenting enables children to grow into healthy, productive and compassionate adults.

It is difficult to find a single definition for effective parenting because the information presented by different writers varies. It is important for parents to realize that effective parenting is seen both in childhood and in the adults their children become. However, the most effective determination of good parenting is how your children in turn become good parents. Thus, effective parenting is best seen in what kind of parents the children become.