LDA of Iowa's Parenting Guide: Part One

Section 4: Learning About Intentional Interactions & Related Topics

When we hear the words ‘Intentional interactions’ we tend to think these interactions include parent and child doing things together like doing chores together, teaching your child step by step how to make her/his bed, planning discussions that will take place during meals, and doing a cooking project with your child. Yes, these interactions are important, but there is much more to learn about intentional interactions and how important these interactions are because “Every interaction between parents and their children influences how children learn, grow, and feel about themselves. Positive, intentional and reciprocal (back & forth) interactions contribute the best outcomes for children and children are happier, healthier, more confident, and excited to learn when adults nurture relationships and interactions.”14 

Plus, our parent-child interactions will determine if our relationships are positive, negative or neutral.  When we build positive relationships with our children, we are increasing the possibility of raising adults who care about themselves, their family and others in the community. 

Topic 1: How do Intentional Interactions Impact a Child’s Language Development

Intentional interactions significantly impact a child’s language development by providing a structured and focused environment where adults actively engage with the child, introducing new vocabulary, explaining concepts, and responding to their attempts at communication, which fosters a strong foundation for language acquisition and comprehension through consistent, meaningful interactions.

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Topic 3: Why are Positive Parent-Child Relationships so Important?

Positive parent-child relationships are crucial because they lay the foundation for a child’s emotional well-being, fostering a sense of security, trust, and self-esteem, which significantly impacts their development across social, cognitive, and emotional aspects, enabling them to navigate challenges and build healthy relationships later in life; essentially, a strong bond with parents acts as a safe base from which children can explore and learn about the world around them.

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Topic 4: How Does Quality Time Impact Parent-Child Relationships?

Quality time spent with a child significantly strengthens the parent-child relationship by fostering a deeper emotional connection, building trust, improving communication, enhancing a child’s sense of security, and promoting positive development, all through focused attention and meaningful interactions with their parent; essentially, it shows the child they are valued and cared for, leading to a stronger bond.

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Topic 5: Why Should We Consider Values When Doing Intentional Parenting?

When practicing intentional parenting, considering values is crucial because they act as a guiding framework for all parenting decisions, ensuring that you are actively shaping your child’s character and moral compass by consciously teaching and modeling the behaviors you believe are important in life, like honesty, empathy, responsibility, and respect; essentially, values provide a core foundation for raising children with a strong sense of right and wrong and a positive ethical outlook.

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